I’ve been a member of an amazing Facebook page called: WHAT EVOLVED WOMEN WANT run by Graham R White. Graham is doing some amazing work expanding consciousness. He asked me to write a post, which I did. On March 22, 2014 Graham posted it on WEWW. Not that numbers matter but the post ended up getting over 700 likes and 385 shares. I was really touched by all the people that appreciated the post.
EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS A LESSON
People are sent to us so that we learn to give and receive love. We can learn through either joy or pain – our choice.
Our lessons are usually in SELF-LOVE and receiving them requires us to experience them. Feel the fear and do it anyway. Be gentle with yourself and the other. Let the dynamic actualize itself – be present to what is and breathe.
Sometimes we feel super connected to someone right off the bat, it’s effortless and easy. Other times things are not so effortless and even though there is attraction, there is also awkwardness or friction. This could mean you’ve been assigned to each other as a lesson, an assignment.
Sometimes people are just not meant to be in our lives. And that is the lesson. Perhaps there is no real exchange, nothing to learn or do together. Or they could be unhealthy, negative, too low consciousness, energy wasters, etc. In that case, get the lesson quick, bless them & be on your way!
Intimacy is terrifying to most of us, and we may sabotage it before we get to experience the lessons fully. No one can predict the future, so enjoy the experience however long it may be – 5 hours, 5 days, 5 months, 5 years, or the rest of your life. Life IS the lesson.
Melissa Rebronja What Evolved Women Want